Welcoming Ramadan: A Time For Reflection, Community And Remembering Loved Ones

18th February 2026

As the crescent moon is sighted, we prepare to welcome Ramadan. It’s the holiest month in the Islamic calendar. This year, the timing brings a unique sense of ease; with the month falling during the shorter days of late winter, the fasts are significantly shorter than in previous years. This makes the physical challenge a lot easier for many, allowing us to focus more of our energy on spiritual renewal, community, and the deep-rooted traditions of our families.

But at its heart, Ramadan is about connection to faith, to the community, and, most importantly, to family. At Access My Events, we advocate for inclusion and the power of shared experiences. However, we also know that for many families, the table feels a little different this year.

A Different Kind Of Chair At The Table

For Zubee and her family, Ramadan 2026 carries a bittersweet weight. Traditions that once felt like clockwork now serve as reminders of those no longer with us. Last year, the family shared Iftar meals (the meal to break the fast) with our much-loved Grandad, whom we addressed with the deepest respect and affection as Agha Gee. We smiled and enjoyed the togetherness that defines this month, unaware it would be his last Ramadan and Eid with us. This is the first Ramadan without him and the second loss the family had experienced so close to home in the space of 4 months. His absence this year leaves a quiet space where his wisdom and presence used to be.

Adding to this sense of loss, 2024 saw the passing of our much-loved Nan, known affectionately as Appa Gee. This year marks the second Ramadan without her warmth, guidance and prayers. For Zubee and her family, the act of breaking the fast is no longer just about the food or the timing—it is a tribute to the legacy of the grandparents who helped keep these traditions going with their prayers and blessings, which are very deeply missed everyday.

Finding Strength In Memory

Grief has a way of surfacing during festive times, but Ramadan offers a unique space for healing. It teaches us:

Patience (Sabr): Finding the strength to navigate the day, even when your heart is heavy.
Charity (Zakat): Honouring lost loved ones by giving to those in need in their name.
Gratitude: Being thankful for the years spent together, even as we grieve the years lost.

While the Iftar table may be smaller this year, the love that fills the room remains as vast as ever. We break our fast not just to nourish our bodies, but to honour the bonds that go beyond even life itself.

Tips For Making Iftar Gatherings Accessible

If you are planning to host an Iftar during the month, we have listed some of our practical tips to ensure that everyone feels included.

Clear paths: Ensure there is a wide, unobstructed walkway to the dining area and the prayer space. Remove loose rugs or clutter that could be a trip hazard.
Physical Layout: While sitting on the floor is a beautiful tradition, it isn’t accessible for everyone. Always provide sturdy chairs with armrests for those with back pain, joint issues, or limited mobility.
Sensory Awareness: Iftar can sometimes be busy and hectic. Create a quiet space for guests who might feel overwhelmed or for those who may be going through grief
Dietary needs: Label dishes clearly (especially for sugar-free or allergen-free needs). For those managing health conditions alongside fasting, knowing exactly what is in the food is vital.
Serving Food: Instead of everyone rushing to the table at the exact minute the fast breaks, consider serving elders and those with disabilities first to avoid the physical squeeze of a crowd.
Seated Prayer: Keep a few chairs at the back or side of the prayer area for those who need to perform Salah (prayer) while seated.
Pace the Evening: Allow for a slower transition between breaking the fast and the main meal. This helps those with digestive issues or mobility challenges move at their own speed without feeling rushed by the crowd.

If you know of any accessible Iftar events happening, please let us know so we can share them with our network. We would like to wish those observing the holy month a very blessed Ramadan Mubarak!

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